Confuzzlement

How can it be that people are so socially out of touch, so emotionally damaged that healthy relationships arent an option, so spacially unaware? it baffles me, how is it you go about your life this way? do you actively choose to be an inconvenience to those around you or are you just that clueless? I wish I could ask this genuinely so i could understand...but i dont think an answer to the question will come in my lifetime.