I hate this term. I understand not wanting to say 'rape', but damnit, surprise sex is getting laid when not expecting it, but wanting it and enjoying it. Not getting freaking raped.
I've never heard it used as another term for rape. The first time I ever heard it used a male friend of mine was describing a co-ed sleep over with a girl he just met. Seriously though who ever uses it as another term for rape is an ass.
As far as I'm aware, it became a euphemism for rape through a SomethingAwful.com article back in the day. SA does a good job spawning subtle little catchphrases by accident with their frontpage article wordplay.
That is not at all a surprise, black box.
How boring the internet would be without Something Awful.
This sheds a whole new light on the story I was told. I may have to do some investigating now......
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