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I had heard of the phenomenon before, but now I'm beginning to experience it....

as soon as you're no longer in the market, THAT is when the ladies come running.

I hear it usually in regards to a guy who's taken suddenly getting offers, but in my case it seems to be when I finally reached a degree of peace with my perpetual single-ness, deciding that if I couldn't handle being a beggar, I'd switch to chooser.

I suppose that makes sense, as now I don't look desperate, so my good qualities can shine through.

And I'm certainly reaping the benefits I suppose.

It's just... that's still hardly fair =P