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Granted, I've already kinda made my peace with it so I'm not gonna seek treatment (which sounds mostly ineffective anyway). I still find sex enjoyable for other reasons (to account for the lack of physical pleasure), so whatever.
And if anything, the only reason I ever found this to be a problem was feeling guilt when my partner was trying really hard to please me... So now that I can point to this, it seems like expectations can be changed to address that problem.
I still love that she put in effort to try to please me-- I just don't want my partner to feel like they're failing when I'm not getting anything out of it physically. I don't want her to think it's her fault.