View Thinker #277dd3's profile thought 16 years, 3 months ago...

One of my close friends has been like in love with this girl for a good two years. Unfortunately for him, she is dating his best friend. I know that kinda shit happens, and how stupid and high school it all sounds, but it's just a bad situation! He is getting worse as the relationship goes on. Like, I know no one can help who they like, it just is really bad for him. He's not a dick about it to either of them, but he gets so distant sometimes, to all of us. It just sucks, and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it. I'm sure the relationship'll take its course, but I think he is firmly in the "friend zone." It seems like it's killing him inside. I don't know how to tell him he needs to stop building her up in his mind and obsessing over her. I know it'll just come out condescending and preachy.

Oh, and before anyone asks, no, I am neither of these people. If I was I would've written in the first person.

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View Thinker #5f1f0a's profile thought 16 years, 5 months ago...

How could I ever possibly thank you for how much you've done for me especially in this past month. You have constantly been there for me. I don't know what I would have done without you. I find it amazing that i've only known you for a year(maybe less), and yet you mean so much to me. I probably haven't been the easiest to deal with because of everything that has been going on, but you've stuck with me. I'm really thankful for that. Obviously, there aren't a lot of people that can deal with my personality. Anyway, I guess what I really want to say is thank you. I know I keep telling you that I'm so ready for these next 4 months to be over, and I am, but it makes me sad because I know I won't be able to see you everyday anymore. I mean who am I going to bitch to about all of the dumb drama in my life. So once again, thank you so much.

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