Name

Lately I've realized that I can tell a lot about a person by what name they call me, whether they use my full name or the shortened version that I usually go by. I find it amusing when people try to act like they know me but call me by my full name. Anyone who uses my full name, unless they are using it for some specific reason, obviously doesn't know me at all. Whenever an old "friend" calls me by my full name I just smile and act friendly, though in my head I am laughing at them.

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I call you by you first and last name all the time, ***** ******. Well, I guess I don't seeing as even when I use your last time I still use the shortened version of your first name. lol

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I confuse names. Not the way most people do, Dave, Doug, or Derrick? Not like that. If you're a Tom, John, Jeff, James, Jason, etc, all of the very very common names, you're just going to have to give me six months to remember it.

I have those associations too. For me, Josh is an egotistical buttplug. Brittanys are usually airheads. Coreys are younger, helpless boys that absolutely ensnare me if I'm not careful. Travis is a universally dick name. Of course, these aren't always true. Just enough.

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Oh, Nicks are smart and nerdy, but attractive. Not just you freckles, all of 'em.

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Nicks ARE nerdy. I've always found Brittanys to be airheads too. I've never met a Connie that I liked.

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Okay, two people saying it makes it an undeniable fact. Sorry, Nicks of the world. All the Connies I know are knocked up teens. Or were. Pauls all have something wrong with them. My dad's a paul. I knew a kid in second grade named paul who scratched his crotch constantly, snotted all over the place. (Blow your nose without a tissue. See what I mean?) And chewed up crayons and gave them to me. Dern Pauls.

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Now that I think about it, I can't help but to agree... all the Brittanys I know are airheads to some degree, the Nicks are nerdy in some aspect...Travises are dicks and I have had a running trend of bouncey Hannahs

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I've never met anybody called Brittany, Corey or Travis in my life, and the only Josh I ever met was a loud self-centred American kid with Aspergers.

Carols and Carolines are always really nice, Marys are crazies and every Angela I've met has been fucking insane. Nicks ARE nerds, but also universally unattractive. Scotts are creepy slimeballs. Bobs are big but very nerdy and cool. Absolutely every guy I've met with an Irish name(Séan, Fergal, Dónal, Macdara, et cetera) has been a total mama's boy.

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I was recently asked my name by a complete and total stranger who somehow out of the millions upon millions of cell phone numbers punched in my exact number looking for someone else completely. I refused to give it to this mystery person and he proceeded to get angry at me so of course I hung up, but it left me with this feeling of disgust for names in general. I realize the purpose of the name, to identify you as an individual. To make you stand out in a crowd of faces making you unique to a group of people I suppose. But a faceless name carries so much more. Here you have two strangers talking over satellite waves who have no idea who the person on the other end may be. They don't know your age they can guess your sex by the tones of your voice but they don't know you, everything that makes you who you are and so they ask for your name so then they can build a mental picture of what you should be. What they 'think' you should be. Therefore you are branded. You will forever be that name with that mental picture and nothing more. I say strip away the names take away the easy routes to human connection and force yourself to forge new ones. Force yourself to see beyond the mental pictures and become who you want to be. I reject your brand and I denounce my name and I transcend to something more. Something other than what people want to see.

i get mental pictures of names. i think everyone does it. i associate a name with someone i've known, like a josh is a stoner, a greg is a perfectionist, a lily is shy, a travis is insane.

i used to think this was a bad thing, but now i'm starting to realize that whether it's a self fulfilling prophecy or not, these assumptions are generally right. it makes me wonder, does the name shape the person, or does everyone i meet just happen to act something like everyone else i've known of the same name? what do people associate with my name? i've never thought to ask.